Amazing Experiences
Thursday, January 22, 2009 at 10:24AM I have been so busy playing catch up that I have not finished the rest of the child birth story I started at the hospital on Tuesday.
In my last Blog I was in the hospital with my daughter and she was going into labor. After 13 hours of pain and hard labor the Doctor could tell something was not right. We should have had the baby by now. He came in to check her at 9 pm and the decision was made to do a “C” section.
Other doctors were scrambled to assist in the surgery. I asked the Doc if I could go in with her and he said that I could. They got me some scrubs and I went into change. When I came out the Doctor was still there with my daughter. I had just washed my hands and came out holding them in the air as any surgeon would and told him I was ready to assist. He cracked up and so did everyone in the room. I know. I am a clown most of the time. Get serious Karl…this is serious stuff. But ya have to laugh too.
A few minutes later we were in the O.R. and they were opening her up. I was not sure how I would handle this as this was my Daughter, my flesh and blood lying there. As they proceeded to open her up, the pain increased so the decision was made to put her all the way out.
About the time my Daughter went out, out came our new baby girl. I scrambled to get a picture of her coming out but missed it. They took the baby, laid her down and proceeded to clean her off a bit. I was taking pictures and then started to count fingers, toes, check out ears, ya know the drill, make sure she is all there and healthy. She checked out perfect. When the baby started to cry so did I. I was looking at this perfect bundle of love, life and joy and I could no longer hold back.
After they got her cleaned up they handed her to me and asked me to follow them to the nursery. I walked over to the operating table and looked one more time at my daughter’s tummy and asked the Doctors if they could finish stitching her up with out me. They said it would be tough but they would try.
We began walking to the nursery and again, as I held this child and looked at her I got all teary eyed and choked up. For those of you that have been through this you know what I mean. About that time I looked up and there was Lita, Jacqueline’s Mom and she was immediately concerned as she could tell I was crying. She asked if it was ok and I answered ‘Yes, everything is OK.”
Later when Jaqueline was brought back to her room she was able to hold her baby for the first time. To see the way a mother looks at her new baby is off the charts. You can see the love and the joy. I could go on and on because it was a truly amazing experience and I am a very proud Pa Pa.
I spelled out in my last blog a few of my whys. Life is too short to not chase and capture your dreams.
I now have another why in my life. I am ready for the challenge to step up to the plate and be a wonderful Grandfather and role model. I cannot even begin to imagine what it is going to be like a year or so down the road when this child begins to walk, talk , laugh and giggle. I can picture her with our outings fishing, camping and cannot not wait to be there when she catches her first fish, roasts her first marshmallow over the camp fire.
The simple things in life are the most wonderful things in life. I think all of us agree on that.
Our whys are the fuel that keeps our tanks of life full at all times. Make sure you know your whys as it will help you to achieve all you want in life. Think big not small. All of us can achieve amazing results with big dreams and whys.
Till next time.
Grand Pa Karl




